Words Of Wisdom... and really powderfull...

Hey Robert,
I've come to light of events that recently occurred. I've heard some stories (some credible sources and not so credible..haha) and I've read all your blogs.Can I be honest here? I'm worried that the direction you are heading is gonna be bad for ya man. Many people have express their concern. I'm sure you know that. It's just that some of ur friends juz dun have the balls to tell it to ur face man.

Firstly, you must know that I write to you not because I am something against you, but because I sincerely care and believe you have potential.
Well, I think you do not have a very good choice of words. Some of my closest friends (i think you know them) have mention it to me, and well, after reading your blog I have come to believe what some of them have said. I know that your intentions are good, and that you aim to motivate your team to winning. That's good man. I see that you always strive to be on top, striving for excellency. But the words you have used have cause others to think that you are proud. I remember very clearly during sports season, sometimes you talk as if Barnitus was really that great, but we all do know well that at some occasions (esp tug of war) it was sheer luck.

Remember inter class volleyball? I was there. Came from G hotel (unfruitful meeting)... I saw that you were at times demeaning the other team (arts 2). And I'm sure you know that they are not happy with ya. Brendan apologize on the class's behalf.

Well, I read ur blog, the entry "A bit DOWN... but definitely NOT OUT.... "I can see that the situation where you kick wai min's manhood was not fully intentional. But by saying that you didn't really care, well that's not right man. I'm so sure Tung Hin wouldn't mind if she lost the save game. I know you apologize for the ball kicking. But being so defensive throughout the other parts of that entry doesn't make the sorry count man. I know how you feel. I've screwed up worst before. Because I was and at times still am very bad with my choice of words. And being defensive isn't going to help. Trying to justify your own actions using "responsibility for another's property" is only going to cause other to be infuriated.

Then, the situation on melvin and badminton. Robert, its just a game. And sometimes playing honorably is so much better that winning. If as a leader you would encourage him instead of tell others that he has no chance, then the game would have been fun and enjoyable for everyone. I don't think the blame of his injury should be placed on you at all. But, as a friend and leader, you should have shown a little more concern for the welfare of others. Also I know that you think you could have won. I am not qualified at all to judge that. But telling the whole world that is showing a sign of arrogance. It is the humble who are respected. This is most worrying "haizz... after so much... there will still be people who thinks that robert is a sucker... but well... what can i say?? LET TIME SHOWS THEM WHAT I AM..."Hey, I don't think ppl think you are sucker cause you are one. It's actually your tongue, your words, the way you express yourself. I hope you will not hold on to your pride.

Well, I hope I have not offended you in any way. I would suggest the following to redeem urself man, if by any chance you agree with me.
1. Stop defending your mistakes. Admit them. Ppl will actually respect you for that. Trust me
2. Be a little more humble. I know sometimes you wanna motivate others. But not the extended of putting down the other team.
3. Apologize without defense to wai min, melvin and the public. This will change things for u totally man!

Well, don't screw up ur life and potential man. I always thought u'll make a good leader, thats why I never let u off the prom committee!

Sincerely
Judson

This whole thing came from a fren of mine regarding what had happen in the school lately. thanks to him that now i know what my next move is...